CNCzone A nice forum with tons of info.
Automation Direct Great source for stepper motors, I suggest the 272oz-in motors.
Gecko Drive The best stepper drives around.
Xylotex Lower cost stepper drives
Hobbycnc More lower cost drives and steppers.
Artsoft Mach1/2/3 Of the best controll software
Turbocnc Best shareware controll software
Keling Inc Good source for Motors, controllers and powersupplies